Monday, January 29, 2007

A spanking good time

Saturday -January 27, 2007
Noon- 2PM
Subject BDSM

The knowledge and beautiful professional Dom - Maestra Sadie Dusaga, the hot and sweet new submissive - Raina Bird, funny long-time switch - Spike, the ever sexy Burlesque performer - Lady Monster, and I had a great conversation about Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism.

BDSM - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BDSM

We talked about safety, when spanking, for bondage, and in general when meeting a new
playmate. We gave the 101 on how to get into BDSM.

A few places where you could get resources or take classes are:
- San Francisco Sex Information (415-989-SFSI, 3 p.m.-9 p.m., www.sfsi.org)
- Good Vibrations (www.goodvibes.com)
- he Center for Sex and Culture (www.centerforsexandculture.com)
- The Society of Janus (www.soj.org)
- QSM (550-7776, www.qualitysm.com)

We discussed good and bad motivations for getting into BDSM, terms you need to know, negotiation, and safe words.

We also laughed, told stories, talked about a few of our favourite things, and played a lot of sexy songs (Sadie and LadyMonster - kept handing me CDs so I'm not sure all that was played).

Basically a great and educational time was had, and I bought a kitty face riding crop after.

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